This is one of those posts that transcends beyond stroke survivors. In fact, it's my first. So welcome diabetics, cancer patients, heart anomalies and, of course, stroke survivors. There are certainly more. This post asks the big question: Do religion and spirituality really work to make your condition, or someone you know, or someone you read about, more tolerable, improved, or completely erased?
Dr. Larry Dossey, an Internal Medicine specialist, says in the Huffington Post, religion is the ordered set of beliefs, behaviors, and practices in a group of similar-thinking people. Spirituality is different in that it links to a higher power of another nature, sometimes nature itself. Not all religious souls are spiritual, nor are all spiritual people religious. But they both recognize prayer as transmission to whoever is out there, whether it's God, Jesus, Buddha, Allah, among others, or simply the universe at large.
"Compelling evidence suggests that those who follow a spiritual path in their lives live several years longer than those who do not follow such a path, and that they experience a lower incidence of almost all major diseases," says Dossey.
So to follow that line of thought, do prayers matter? Research, including my own, says prayers go hand-in-hand with positive thinking. I see it on Facebook all the time: please send your prayers to my child with leukemia, please pray for my brother who had a head-on crash, and so on. I started thinking, those are people of faith (the ones who live longer), who really believe that prayers help.
That way of thinking is infectious. Now I sort of do, too. But not completely. I have become an agnostic, (or not knowing if God exists). How could I get a stroke, for example, if God looked out for me. To that, others counter, everything happens for a reason. That is why I'm on the fence, but the everything-happens-for-a-reason people are tipping the scale. But then again, who am I to say. I believe that my father is my guardian angel, for cryin' out loud. But I digress.
In an article published in an issue of Mayo Clinic Proceedings, Mayo Clinic researchers reviewed the relationship between religion or spirituality (or both) and its tie to any sort of recovery. The researchers found "a majority of the nearly 350 studies of physical health and 850 studies of mental health that have used religious and spiritual variables, that religious involvement and spirituality, are associated with better health outcomes."
In a recent segment on Good Morning America, Dr. Richard Besser, ABC News's Chief Health and Medical Editor, said practicing a religion may be good for your health where medicine and faith often intersect.
Says Besser, "Lester Breslow, a true pioneer in public health...[conducted a study] with Professor James E. Enstrom of the University of California, Los Angeles, and showed that the life expectancy of Mormon men was almost ten years longer than that of the general population of white American males. Female Mormons lived between five and six years longer than their general population counterparts."
The pair also found the introspective nature of religious services can lower stress and foster love, forgiveness, hope, and optimism, which leads to a
positive outlook on life.
The University of Maryland conducted a study and found that 67% of the specialists were praying
for a patient. Compared to patients who were not prayed for, patients who were prayed for
showed improvements in the paths of their illnesses, and fewer
complications and deaths.
Also, Randy Travis, that Hall-of-Famer country star, had a stroke recently. His wife, Mary, professed, "They really said there was no hope; go ahead and pull the plug. I went to his bedside and I said, 'Baby, you've got to give me some more fight.' And I knew that he had a little talk with Jesus, because he squeezed my hand, and a little tear fell down," she continued. "And I knew that he wasn't through yet." More prayer, I imagine.
Enough? I may not know if God exists, but I'm leaning toward the positive side that He does. As my grandmother used to say about anything, "It couldn't hurt. So try." I'm going to join a congregation as my first step toward worship and then we'll see where it goes. While I'm there, I'll pray for others and, truth be told, a little for myself.